Teenagers' aversion to learning is a common problem during middle school, but some parents may find the wrong solution to make their children more disgusted with learning. What should be done to provide psychological counseling for teenagers' aversion to learning? Continue to read on.

Faced with school aversion and dropout, parents often choose to criticize education or encourage their children to participate in more training courses. They only try their best to cultivate their children's achievements, but overlook the underlying reasons behind their dislike and dropout, which are likely caused by their children's psychological problems. If these psychological problems are not given timely attention and guidance, it is likely to cause serious social harm. Some survey results indicate that the high incidence of severe psychological problems and depression among adolescents is an inevitable result of abnormal educational patterns. However, parents often overlook education during sensitive periods, which may lead to the formation of unhealthy personalities, such as poor psychological resilience, self-centeredness, reaction to problems, and sensitivity withdrawal.

Childhood depression and adult depression have different manifestations. Extrovert depression manifests as tantrums, littering, and irritability. Introverted depression is silent, unable to speak, and in a daze alone. If parents pay too much attention to their child's academic performance at this time and ignore their child's psychological changes, it is easy for the child to take drastic actions when encountering unpleasant things, and may even have serious consequences.

Teenage psychological counseling experts suggest that parents should pay more attention to psychological needs while paying attention to their children's material life satisfaction.

1. Equality and dialogue with children.

Treat your child as a member of the family, communicate equally, and do not use your parents to speak above your child. You can maintain the same height as your child. You can involve your child in discussions and listen to their views on some family matters.

2. Strengthen communication with children.

Spend more time with your children. You can play games and go for a walk to enrich their lives. Communicate with children more about each other's ideas, enhance communication, and understand them.

3. Set reasonable goals.

Develop goals that meet the needs of children based on their own developmental characteristics. Don't compare your own short length with others' long length, encourage and affirm your child, and pay attention to what interests them.

The article originates from; Jiangmen Psychological Consultation http://www.jmbsxl.com/